FORGIVENESS

I have captured much of this in my book “Ensnared.” I struggled with unforgiveness and lived with so much hate towards my dad. The book is available on amazon and kindle and is very affordable. Let’s get an extra juice on this same topic – FORGIVENESS.

Many people say that life is too short to be lived in negative energy. Well it is true; couldn’t be put any better. Learning the art of forgiveness is not only beneficial to your mental health but is also instrumental in what is manifested and projected in your physical health.

Forgiveness is defined as a deliberate decision to stop harboring negativity towards who hurt you. This conscious action does not focus on whether this party deserves your forgiveness or not. Most of the time, the former is true; they don’t deserve it

But why do we choose to go the tough path of forgiveness?

• Forgiveness puts your health in good shape

Unforgiveness can take a toll on your body, mind and soul. Just as I mentioned earlier, holding negative emotions damages the cushion that holds peace and calmness required in our bodies. Unresolved pain or conflict can go deeper than you may realize – it may be eating into your physical health and this could be manifested through blood pressure, anxiety, depression and stress. Forgiveness is medicine for the body, mind and spirit.

• Forgiveness frees you – peace

This brings me to this point – forgiveness is not about the other person, it’s about you. It’s about your peace. It’s not about making peace with the one who hurt you but making peace within yourself. Feeling free from the negative emotions. Holding back brings delays and stagnation. It’s like carrying a huge weight. You put it down, you feel free.

• Forgiveness saves that relationship

It gets even worse when you extend your anger and grudge to friends and family of that one person who hurt you. Unforgiveness masks our eyes and heart from seeing the good side of people who hurt us. How many times has someone hurt you and you fail to acknowledge they might have fallen shot in one area but that doesn’t define who they are. Forgiveness will save your relationship because you’ll start viewing them from a point of positivity. Do you believe in second chances?

• Forgiveness leads to spiritual growth

Forgiveness opens our hearts to many spiritual practices such as patience, compassion, kindness and humility.

Are you battling unforgiveness and prolonged anger? Let’s walk this journey together. Get my book here

THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE CHOOSING A PROGRAM TO STUDY ABROAD

There are hundreds of study abroad programs available and taking the following things into account can help to narrow the options in order to find one that is right for you.

• LOCATION

You’d want to choose a destination based on climate, culture, safety and accessibility. Some students want to study in a big city while others are looking for a more remote destination.

• LANGUAGE

If you are planning to study in a non-English speaking country you may be required to demonstrate proficiency in the host country’s language. Be sure to check the language requirements before applying.

• COST

Consider the program’s cost and whether it’s within your budget.

Look into the availability of grants, scholarships and study abroad loans to enable you offset costs.

• ACADEMIC FIT

This is where you match a program with your interests, passion and goals. Consider the courses offered, academic reputation of the host institution and even the program and the program’s accreditation status.

OVERCOMING PROCRASTINATION

Results can only be achieved when we put in the work and do it the right way at the right time. Procrastination is an enemy of success that we have to deal with.

Let’s fight this together. Here are powerful tips that will help you deal with procrastination.

• CHANGE YOUR THINKING

Success starts in the mind. Failure is all mindset. People spend a lot of time thinking about things they haven’t done and all they’ve been procrastinating about and before they know it, their mind is already poisoned into thinking it’s okay and that’s how they are. Then they live with it.

So instead of starting your work and abandoning it half way, just finish it! If you started it, which is the most difficult thing; you can still finish it up. Just start, and while at it, finish.

• BEAT THAT OBSTACLE.

What is that biggest obstacle that is preventing you from accomplishing a task. First, identifying that hindering factor is a step to beating procrastination. Deal with it. Get it out of your way. You can as well ask for help.

• ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR ‘WHY’

This serves as a kind of motivation for many. Whenever you remember your “Why”, you’ll be more motivated to do the things you ought to do. So, what are your “Why’s” Why do you want what you want? Why did it even cross your mind in the first place? This will ignite a particular energy into your spirit.

• GET AN ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER

The truth is, it can be downright stressful sometimes. And you would lose focus or get distracted, but with an accountability partner, you’re geared up to action. Find someone who loves to be part of your success, someone who keys into your dream and ambition. Someone you report to concerning your progress and failure.

However, not everyone does well with an accountability partner. Some people prefer to hold themselves accountable than anyone else.

If that works for you, get one!

HAS YOUR COLLEGE APPLICATION BEEN REJECTED? WHAT COULD BE THE REASON? FIND OUT

After a long struggle to get to college your chance to study abroad is the most exciting phase in education. New environment, new people, new culture, new language all these are things students look forward to.

Applying to an international college is a delicate process that needs proper handling. Most students have reported rejection of their study abroad application after thinking they did everything right. There’s more; let’s find out!

We have a list of possible reasons for rejection of international college applications;

• Lack of expert guidance

As a first timer, you need guidance so as to get things right. Having an expert’s opinion goes a long way to ensure you don’t miss anything out. Missing certain things in your application; could be documents etc may result to rejection of your application.

• Providing false information.

Forging documents and/or scores will get you caught during reviews with the admission panel. Submitted documents are reviewed keenly and it is very important to carefully fill out the study abroad forms with the right information otherwise any discrepancy will lead to cancellation of the entire application procedure.

• A not so convincing SOP

A statement of purpose is an essential component of the study abroad application process. A strong SOP boosts your chances of being shortlisted for admission to a college/university. An SOP requires a formal yet engaging tone; not overly flattering or dated language.

• Low IELTS/TOEFL Score.

The university you are applying to outlines a clear set of requirements that you are needed to read before submitting applications. This includes a clear score accepted in the English proficiency tests. Just giving the score is not enough. You have to meet what is required. Submitting something below what is expected or not submitting at all can lead to rejection.

• Missed deadlines or the last one to apply

A candidate is expected to be timely and submitting a late application means a negative impression. Waiting until the last minute to submit portrays a bad image of who you are to the admissions panel.

Some colleges/universities keep track of submission dates and when your application is received by the deadline it can greatly inform the decisions of the admissions panel.

• Emailed to the wrong address

Students have missed out on application submissions either by using incorrect address or not including the right postage.

Read the submissions instructions clearly to ensure right location. You can as well double check with the university to confirm if they have received your application.

• Late visa application

Among the most crucial steps in studying abroad is visa application. Proper research starts from knowing what is required to obtain a student visa. Timely application and knowing the right documentation matter a lot. 

• Applying for courses you are not eligible for

Studying abroad doesn’t just mean applying for any course at any institution. The choice of your course should resonate with the given requirements; else, your application will be rejected.

• Unsuccessful payment of fees

There is always an additional fee to the tuition fee that is part of the application procedure. Many students are not aware that this must be paid while submitting their study abroad applications to universities/colleges.

Most application fees are non-refundable and even after rejection you will not receive your money back. However, your application will be turned down if you don’t pay at all.

MISTAKES INTERNATIONAL STUDENTS MAKE WHEN APPLYING TO COLLEGES

Applying to U.S. colleges and universities as an international student can be overwhelming. There are many different parts of the admissions process to consider, so experts recommend students plan carefully.

As prospective international students navigate the college application process, here are common mistakes they should avoid:

1. PREFERING ‘HIGH BRAND’ OR HIGH-RANKED COLLEGES

Professional Educational consultants don’t rank colleges; we think of them in tiers. For example: Princeton is in the first tier, UC Berkeley is in the second, UC San Diego is in the third and so on. If you’re like everybody else and want to go to the “best” college, official rankings might be useful to some extent to give you a sense of tiers, but otherwise they are not helpful at all.

You’re much better off creating your own tiers, keeping your needs in mind. Try categorizing colleges into reach, match and safety groupings, and then picking the ones that will be your focus based on criteria like educational fit, campus culture fit, etc.

• APPLYING WITHOUT A ‘NARRATIVE’

When you apply to a college, you are not just sending in your application. Whether you realize it or not, you are submitting a story about yourself and that story can be told well or told poorly.

Many people within the college admission office read your application and come away with a narrative about you that forms the basis of their picture of you as a person—they don’t remember details. Here, you have the power to frame that impression.

Instead of trying to explain everything you are doing in high school, focus on the one or two primary areas that you are most passionate about. And be sure to back up your passion with impressive achievements.

• STARTING TEST PREP IN YOUR SENIOR YEAR

We talk to so many students who start too late prepping for their standardized tests. Don’t wait until the end of junior year and the beginning of senior year to take these tests—and definitely don’t wait until then to start studying.

Whether we like it or not, standardized tests are one of the most heavily weighted part of the college admissions “formula” and if you plan in advance, you actually have a big advantage over other students. Don’t be one of those late starters. This is something under your control.

• HAVING NO CLEAR PASSION

Your application is unlikely to be compelling to colleges if you’re not accomplished in an area of genuine passion.

College admissions officers are looking for students who show deep curiosity and interest in some academic areas and some non-academic extracurriculars. It’s not enough to just get very good grades and test scores, you need to have authentic passion and have attained some notable achievements that area.

WHY DO YOU NEED AN INTERNATIONAL STUDENT ADVISOR?

One of the most important decisions one can ever make in life is education. Education is so instrumental in molding an individual’s character, personality and individuality. Huge changes have occurred in education globally and the new age education system is offering opportunities for students to experience value in their education. The emergence of overseas education has been one of the most lucrative and beneficial choices to many.

Students study overseas with the intention to widen their perspectives and earn experience in a new learning environment since there are restrictions to course options and universities in their home countries.

Most of the college students who wish to study overseas lack the right information needed throughout the process of college admission, visa and budget. Some do not know what choices to make when it comes to colleges or /and courses. They neither have information about the colleges nor about the procedures required on documentation for their study abroad.

There are factors to be considered in every step of the way; be it in choosing college/ university, visa, budgeting and college majors/courses. All these can best be guided by an expert who deals with these regularly. Such professionals are always up to date on study abroad information, latest compliances and requirements needed.

Here are the reasons why you need an expert as you plan/prepare to study abroad:

• An international student advisor will assist you to chose the perfect career.

Choosing a career path, at times, may seem like a giant leap to college students. Your advisor will help you choose a career that suits your passion and skills, personality, goals, values, options available, budget and many other factors.

• They have a powerful network with universities.

Study abroad consultants have a working relationship with universities. This makes it easier for information and other logistics.

• An expert will give you a comprehensive idea about the country, colleges/universities, eligibility, requirements, cost and admission deadlines.
• You will be guided through accommodation and travel.

You are travelling away from home and you don’t want to mess with these most essential aspects to any international student. All these require prior arrangements and you need someone who is knowledgeable about the country and college to have you organize yourself properly.

• You will receive a valuable financial advice.

This is the most important part. Getting a professional who understands the entire process will make you feel value for your finances. Having the knowledge of what to do and making the right choices will have you plan well and spend right.

• You will be guided throughout your college application process.

Applying to college is exciting but you will need to stay organized and get it all right.

Whether you are a parent or a student this information will help you plan! An educational consultant might be the key to your success. With the correct direction and assistance, you can navigate the entire process with ease.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A DEGREE FROM A HIGH-INCOME COUNTRY AND ONE FROM YOUR HOME COUNTRY

Students who study for their degree in a high-income country are more advantaged compared to those obtaining a degree in their home country.

Fact 1

REPUTATION AND RECOGNITION

Renowned education systems like the United States, Canada, Australia, often have a higher international reputation and recognition and one can easily be considered when seeking employment or when applying for further education abroad.

Fact 2

QUALITY OF EDUCATION

High-income countries generally have well-established and rigorous education systems with high academic standards. the teaching methodologies and the available resources in such countries often provide a more comprehensive and advanced learning experience compared to other countries.

Fact 3

RESEARCH OPPORTUNITIES

High income countries have extensive research infrastructure and funding which allows for greater research opportunities for students. These countries attract top researchers and offer facilities that enable students to engage in cutting-edge research projects.

Fact 4

FINANCIAL OPPORTUNITIES

Studying in a high-income country can be more expensive compared to pursuing a degree in your home country. Tuition fees, living expenses, and other costs can be higher. However, financial aid, scholarships, and part-time job opportunities are often available to international students.

EARN MONEY AS YOU STUDY :TIPS FOR INTERNATIONAL STUDENTS

As an international student, financial constraints are expected. That is very normal. College comes with numerous needs and bills that have to be settled for a smoother college living and studies. As much as concentration and focus for your studies is needed, getting a strategy to earn during your free time wont hurt. It only requires you to be smart, plan persistently and manage your time well.

Are you a student studying in the US? Are you a student planning to travel to the US for your studies? This article is specifically for you.

Here are a number of ways to get your studies going as you sort your bills comfortably.

1. ONLINE FREELANCING

This is a form of self- employment. You don’t have to work exclusively for a specific company and as a result, you’ll have the freedom to work whenever you are free from wherever you are. You’ll have control over who you work for and when to work. Websites like Upwork, Fiverr and freelancer offer opportunities for services such as writing, editing, graphic design and programming.

What you need.

• A unique skill set.
• A reliable internet connection.
• A laptop.

• TUTORING

This simply means an additional academic and/or skills development support from a more experienced person. As an international student, you can plan well and offer tutoring services to your peers or high school students around you.

Many students are willing to pay for extra academic help and tutoring can be a flexible and rewarding way to earn your money and voila! Bills settled!

Note: This you can do virtually or physically.

What you need.

• Confidence
• Know the language of your audience.
• Be skillful and knowledgeable in that field.
• A laptop.

• PART TIME JOBS.

Many universities and cities in the US offer part time job opportunities for students. Most colleges often have boards or centers where students can find job opportunities. Students who utilize this well ends up getting valuable work experience and an extra income. Alongside that, part-time jobs will broaden your network, bolster your confidence, enable you to understand the colloquial and enhance your social skills.

Part-time jobs help you reduce education loans and expenditure. No matter the sum you get from it, it can help in covering other academic and non-academic expenses.

• SCHOLARSHIPS AND GRANTS.

There are grants and scholarships available for international college students. All you need to do is research and apply for these scholarships and grants whenever they are offered. Consider the ones that align with your academic achievements and interests. These opportunities are often merit based and do not require repayment.

• CAMPUS AMBASSADOR PROGRAMS

Companies and brands in the US offer paid campus ambassador programs to promote their products and/or services in colleges. It only requires a few hours of your time each week and from that you get a steady income stream.

It is important for international college students to make their studies a priority and avoid taking on too much time on work or financial risk. Students should also ensure that any job they decide to take does not violate the terms of their academic program or visa.